When
report card day rolls around, some
kids proudly hand their grades
over to Mom and Dad, while others
stuff them at the bottom of a
backpack, praying their parents
won't remember to look. Like
exams, report cards can be an
intimidating part of the school
year for both students and
parents.
Here are 10 tips
to help make sure your child is
making the grade.
1.
Take report cards seriously.
While most teachers concede that
report cards don't tell the whole
story about a student's abilities,
work habits and intelligence,
parents should view the report as
a critical piece of information
about their child's academic
progress. Whether pleased or
disappointed by it, parents should
use the report card as a point of
discussion with their child and,
if necessary, his teacher.
2.
Praise a good report card.
If your child brings home a good
report card, be sure to let him
know that you're proud of his
accomplishments. And don't forget
to put it in a prominent spot on
the refrigerator!
3.
Talk about a bad report card.
Failure is a scary thing for any
child. If your student doesn't do
as well as expected on his report
card, talk openly about it and
reassure him that bad grades do
not mean he is a failure. There
could be many reasons for his
performance that have nothing at
all to do with ability or
intelligence. Find out if he
understands the work that is
expected of him and if the teacher
has talked to him about how to do
better. You may also want to
schedule a time for both you and
your child to meet with his
teacher to discuss a strategy for
improvement.
4.
Don't assume A's reflect a
student's best efforts.
Just because your child received
all A's doesn't mean that he is
performing up to his potential. If
he is acing all of his exams and
always seems to finish his
homework in a snap, it may be that
his classes are not challenging
enough. Talk to him and the
teacher about the possibility of
moving into more advanced classes.
5.
Look at your child's work.
Report cards come out only a few
times a year, but students do work
in the classroom or at home every
day. Parents should always look at
their children's projects and
exams, and pay special attention
to the grades and comments that go
along with them.
6.
Know your child's classes.
If your high school student is
planning to go to college, the
classes he takes and the grades he
receives are critical. Make sure
that his schedule meets the
requirements for the state
university system and that he is
taking as many challenging classes
as appropriate.
7.
Set aside time for homework.
Poor report cards, particularly in
the higher grades, can be as much
a reflection of insufficient
effort as a lack of knowledge or
skill. Even an algebra whiz can
receive a bad math grade if he has
failed to do the required class
work. Parents should be adamant
about setting aside time on
evenings and weekends for
schoolwork and should check to
make sure that the work is getting
done. Find out if your child's
teacher has a system, such as a
daily voicemail or Internet
posting, to help parents verify
homework assignments.
8.
Encourage good work habits.
It's never too early to learn good
work and study habits. Read to
your child regularly even before
he starts school and always make
learning a part of family fun.
9.
Give incentives. Like
adults, children and teenagers are
motivated by incentives. A trip to
the movies, a small gift or a
special dinner with Mom and Dad
can be a nice reward for a good
report card. Be careful, however,
that the incentive does not appear
to be a bribe or an end in itself.
Children should ultimately strive
for good grades out of a genuine
interest in learning, personal
pride and the understanding that
success in school lays the
groundwork for success later on in
life.
10.
Be involved in school.
Generally speaking, students who
excel have parents who are
actively involved in their
education and in their school.
Show interest in what your child
is learning by helping out with
homework or volunteering in the
classroom. If your child sees you
involved at school, and attending
school board and PTA meetings,
he'll know that you think school
is important.
Not
a One-Size-Fits-All Format
Your child will
usually receive a report card
every six to 10 weeks. But report
cards can vary widely from
district to district--and even
from school to school and teacher
to teacher--in terms of what they
measure and how they convey
information about academic
performance.
Take the grading
scale, for instance. Some teachers
and schools are "tough
graders," giving A's only
when student performance is truly
outstanding. Other teachers and
schools assign A's and B's
liberally. Therefore, students may
attain different grade point
averages in different classrooms
and at different schools even if
the quality of their schoolwork is
about the same.
Report cards can
also reflect the particular
educational values of different
teachers, schools and districts.
Some schools and teachers
emphasize the basics. For example,
a child's grade in language arts
or English may primarily reflect
his command of grammar and writing
mechanics. Other schools emphasize
creative expression, and may give
higher grades to students who
write with flair and strongly
voiced opinions, while being more
lenient on the mechanics.
While most
public middle schools and high
schools assign letter grades of A
to F to student course work, many
elementary schools do not. Often
students in elementary school
receive checks or minuses, or
grades such as S for
"satisfactory" and NW
for "needs work." Other
schools assign no grades at all,
but rather have teachers write a
narrative, or detailed comments,
about each student. Many parents
find these narratives particularly
helpful, as they not only assess a
student's progress but also
explain how the teacher feels
strengths and weaknesses may best
be addressed.
In high school,
grades become extremely important,
especially if your student is
planning to attend college.
Colleges look closely at an
applicant's grades, especially in
rigorous academic subjects such as
advanced algebra and
"honors" English. At
highly selective colleges, your
student will probably need close
to an A average to gain
admittance, while at less
selective institutions a B average
or less may suffice.
Additional
Resources
Check these additional articles on
GreatSchools.net:
Is
My Child on Track?
Five
Key Skills for Academic Success
Check these
useful tips from Scholastic.com:
Report
Card Checklist
How
to Read and Respond to End-of-Year
Report Cards